1. Fear
Fear is the #1
killer of success as a writer. It’s why most people wake up every morning and
work in a 9-5 job they hate. It’s why more heart attacks happen on Monday
mornings while people are on their way to an unfulfilling job. It’s why writers
will throw away their manuscript instead of self-publishing or dealing with the
rejection of pursuing a publishing contract. It’s why we put off making the
important decisions in our life. It’s why we’re more concerned with what other
people think of us than we are with what we think of ourselves.
We’re afraid of
what others will think and say about us. We’re afraid of failing. We’re afraid
of succeeding. We’re afraid of getting rejected. We’re afraid of getting
published and not selling, or having readers hate our work. We’re afraid of
1-star and 2-star reviews.
Well guess what!
Harry Potter Book 1 has 94 1-star reviews and 88 2-star reviews and I don’t
even have those many negative reviews on my 20+ books combined! And guess what
else? J.K. Rowling sells way more books than I do.
Fear is just an
illusion. It says that you shouldn’t finish your book because others might not
like it. The truth is if your book becomes successful, changes the world and
helps millions of people live a happier life, millions of others probably won’t
like it! Some will hate it and some will love it. That’s just how the world
works. If you just try to please everyone, you end up
pleasing no one.
A parable in the
bible says Jesus gave a great speech one day to thousands and thousands of
people. At the end of his incredible presentation, there were some believers,
some mockers and some who just didn’t understand. If Jesus couldn’t get 100%
positive response then why would you ever expect your book to get a 100%
positive response? That’s just not how the world works.
Successful
writers understand that fear is an illusion and they act in spite of fear. Are
you willing to take action even in the face of your fear?
2. Procrastination
Procrastination will
murder your success and rob you blind if you let it! You have to have the
self-control, self-motivation and self-discipline to keep making progress with
your writing. Procrastination is a simply a habit and we all suffer from it to
some extent.
The reason we
procrastinate is because we associate more pain with taking action than we do
with not taking action. For example, if you’re procrastinating on publishing
your book, it’s probably because you associate pain with the unknown aspects of
publishing, potential rejections and other challenges. That pain you anticipate
is stronger than the anticipated pleasure of publishing your book. That’s why
you don’t do it!
If you want to
do a quick exercise to get rid of your procrastination instantly, just grab a piece
of paper and a pen right now. Write down at the top of the blank page of paper
what action you’re procrastinating and putting off. For example, “publishing my
book.” Then, on the right side write “pain” and the left side “pleasure” with a
dividing line down the middle. In the pain side, write down all the reasons why
taking action could be painful, such as “I’d rather watch TV” or “I don’t want
to be rejected” or “what if it doesn’t sell?” – but the catch is you have to
write in the tiniest possible handwriting you can. Write the painful outcomes
as small as humanly possible – if you can’t read it then you’re doing it right.
Now, on the side
under pleasure, write down all the reasons why taking that action will bring
you pleasure such as “I could become a best-selling author” or “I could earn a
great income from my royalties” or “I would gain the respect of my peers and
readers.” Write the pleasurable outcomes in your normal handwriting or maybe
even a bit bigger than normal – you want it to take up the whole pleasure side
of the page.
When you’re done
writing the pain and pleasure outcomes, look at the paper. You should clearly
now see that you’re going to get a lot more pleasure from getting it done than
by putting it off. Now you have reframed
your perspective and you should be excited now to go get it done rather
than anxious about it.
3. Indecision
Indecision will
also murder your success and rob you blind! Indecision comes from insecurity in
us as well as old habits. Indecision is really just another form of
procrastination – but instead of hesitating to take action, we’re hesitating to
decide something. You might be indecisive about what the title of your book
should be or whether to self-publish or find an agent.
General Colin
Powell said, “Indecision has cost the
American government, American businesses, and the American people billions of
dollars more than the wrong decision.” And he’s right!
Fundamentally,
we are indecisive because we have low self-esteem. Maybe we’re repeated
negative thoughts in our head or we were unconsciously taught as a child not to
be decisive. Maybe we got punished in the past for making a decision that
someone else didn’t like. Whatever it is doesn’t really matter. The key is to
understand that you can ALWAYS change your decisions later. You can publish
your book today on Kindle and then two days from now, change the title. It’s
okay to make changes! But the good news is, when you start being decisive and
making decisions quickly, you’ll find you don’t need to change your decisions
very often. Most of the time, you’ll do it just right and you will have saved
yourself a lot of time, worry and energy by making a good decision without
procrastinating. And when you do have to make a tough decision to change
something important, you’ll get it done right away so you can move on with your
life.
Are there any
important decisions you’ve been putting off? Write them down write now in your
notebook and commit to making a decision before your head hits the pillow
tonight.
4. Perfectionism
Perfectionism is
highly related to procrastination and indecision as well. Oftentimes, it’s our
perfectionism that keeps us from finishing a project or publishing a book.
“It’s not quite ready yet...” we keep telling ourselves. But the truth is it
will NEVER be ready according to your perfect standards! THERE IS NO PERFECT
BOOK AND THERE NEVER WILL BE.
If you’re trying
to write a perfect book, you’ll die before you ever reach that goal. Look at
all the New York Times bestsellers. I’ve read many professionally published
books that had typos, grammatical errors or phrases or sentences that didn’t
make sense or were even just factually incorrect. Despite having a whole
publishing house and a team of editors, those New York Times bestsellers still
aren’t perfect! So how could little old you possibly write a perfect book? You
can’t! So don’t even try.
Here’s what you
can do: write the best book you’re capable of writing today. Then publish it.
If you want to make changes or edits to it later, that’s totally fine. You can
come out with a 2nd or 3rd or 797th edition.
You don’t have to be perfect to become a bestselling author – but you do have
to finish writing and editing and publish your book.
5. Lack of Money
A lot of
would-be authors say they don’t have enough cash to write and publish a book.
Nonsense! It’s cheaper today to publish a book than it ever has been in the
history of the world.
I’ve published
books on Amazon Kindle for as little as $5 – that’s right, just five dollars!
If you learn how to write the book yourself, edit it yourself, format it
yourself, publish it yourself, and hire a cover designer on Fiverr.com for $5,
then you have a $5 book. Heck, if you use the GIMP graphic design software and
know some graphic design skills, you could even publish it for free.
Now, I’m not
telling you to go the ultra-cheap route, but if money is an issue then why not?
Don’t let money stop you from writing and publishing a book. There’s no excuse
for that anymore!
6. Lack of Knowledge
Knowledge can be
a huge stumbling block for new authors. I know it was knowledge combined with
fear that stopped me from publishing my first book over 6 years ago! It took me
6 years to publish my first book because I didn't know how to.
You don’t have
that excuse anymore! You can learn how to format and upload your book to Kindle
in less than an hour with the free Kindle formatting guides from Amazon.
7. Lack of Vision
Lack of vision
can be just as deadly to your success. It means you can’t see where you’re
going. You have no goals or dreams you’re shooting for. You can’t see how it’s
going to happen. You can’t even imagine writing a book – where would you start?
Jack Canfield
tells a wonderful story that illustrates this concept. Imagine you were driving
from California to New York at night in your car. Your headlights on your car
only show about the next 200 feet of road. You can’t possible see what’s beyond
the next 200 feet. But you can still drive from California to New York at night
without a problem. Why? Because you have a road map or GPS. You have
directions. And, even more importantly, you just know in your mind that you’re
going to get there if you keep moving forward.
If you can see
your goals and dreams in your mind as clearly as you can see that driving your
car will get you from point A to point B, you’ll have no problem becoming a successful
writer. With a great vision, when challenges or obstacles come up, you just go
over, under, around or through them. You do whatever it takes to succeed
because you know deep down in your heart that you have what it takes.
Do you have a
strong vision for your life and your writing career?
About The Author:
Tom
Corson-Knowles is an entrepreneur, blogger and international bestselling
author. He started his first business at age 13, manufacturing SAD lamps out of
his father's garage. By the time he graduated from Indiana University Kelley
School of Business at age 22, Tom was earning a full-time income from his
business marketing whole food nutrition supplements. He then decided to share
what he had learned on his way to becoming a successful businessman through
writing. Today, Tom teaches new and established authors and writers how to have
incredible success by writing and selling ebooks.
His other books
include The Kindle Publishing
Bible and The Kindle Formatting Bible, among others. You can learn more
about Tom at his marketing
blog. Connect with Tom on Facebook and
Twitter @Juicetom

